WEBAug 4, 2020 · Rochester, NY. - Nathan V. Lilley, 72, passed away unexpectedly of an aortic dissection on July 22, 2020, surrounded by his loving family, singing his favorites. Born in Houlton, Maine, to Eben LeRoy (Roy) and Blanche (Victory) Lilley, Nathan is survived by his loving wife of 51 years, Betsy Maynard Lilley, three children Kristen (Mark) Murphy, Heather (Matt) Dale and Kent (Christa) Lilley ...